Saying goodbye isn't easy, but a lot of people find comfort in scattering a loved one’s ashes in a meaningful place. Whether it’s a beautiful spot in nature or a cosy family garden, this act can feel very special and as a way to keep someone’s memory alive.
In this article, we’ll cover where you can scatter ashes in the UK, what the rules are, and how to make arrangements that feel right for you.
And if you’re looking for a more personal way to celebrate your loved one, take a look at our free guide on planning a celebration of life.
Can you scatter ashes anywhere in the UK?
In short: no, not anywhere. There is no UK-wide law that bans scattering ashes, but where you do it matters. If you own the land, you can go ahead. If not, you’ll need the landowner’s permission. This applies to places like parks, beaches, private estates, or even farmland.
Environmental concerns also come into play. Avoid areas where ashes could disrupt wildlife or water sources. Scattering ashes in water, for example, should follow guidelines to prevent pollution. We have more on that below.
Scattering ashes on private land and in gardens
If you own the land, you can scatter ashes in your garden or on private property. Many families find comfort in creating a small memorial area at home.
If the land isn’t yours, you’ll need to ask the owner, whether it’s a local farmer, a private estate, or a hospitality venue. And if you're considering scattering ashes in your garden but think you might move house one day, consider the emotional significance of that choice. Will you want to return to that spot in the future?
Scattering ashes in public places
You can scatter ashes in many public places, but permission is often required.
Public parks: These are managed by local councils. Some are open to scattering ashes, others are not. It’s always best to ask. Many councils are sympathetic and may allow it if done discreetly and respectfully.
Beaches and rivers: You’ll need to follow the Environment Agency guidelines. They recommend scattering ashes at least 1 km upstream from any water abstraction points, like reservoirs or water treatment plants. Generally, scattering ashes in rivers or along the coast is fine, just as long as it's done respectfully and doesn’t harm the environment or disturb others who are enjoying the area.
Popular locations: Places like the Lake District, national parks, and coastal cliffs are popular spots. They might feel really special, but they’re often protected areas, so it’s a good idea to check if you need permission before visiting.
Can you scatter ashes at sea?
Yes, you can scatter ashes at sea in the UK, and you don’t need a licence to do so.
However, there are some important guidelines to follow. The Environment Agency advises that ashes should be scattered away from buildings, people swimming, and places where the ashes could wash ashore. Biodegradable urns or scatter tubes are recommended, and it's best to plan around tides and weather.
Can you scatter ashes on a family grave?
Yes, scattering ashes on a family grave is often allowed, as long as you have the grave owner's permission. This usually means speaking to the cemetery office to confirm the rules for that specific site.
Some cemeteries have clear policies about how and where ashes can be scattered. If there is already a memorial in place, it may be possible to include a new inscription or simply lay a tribute alongside.
Scattering ashes at a crematorium
Many crematoria have dedicated gardens of remembrance or scattering areas.
If the cremation took place there, scattering the ashes may be free or offered at a low cost. If you’re returning later, you might need to book a time in advance. Some crematoria also allow you to hold a short service or moment of reflection as part of the experience.
Each site is different, so it’s worth checking in advance what’s included and what the space feels like.
How much does it cost to scatter ashes in the UK?
If you’re scattering ashes on your own land or in a public place (with permission), there is usually no cost involved.
At crematoria, scattering ashes might be included in the original cremation fee or charged separately if returning later. Some may offer commemorative extras like plaques or keepsake gardens.
If you're using a boat service or visiting a private venue, expect fees to range from £50 to £200 or more, depending on what's included. You might also consider biodegradable scatter tubes or urns, which can cost from around £20.
What does the law actually say about scattering ashes?
In the UK, ashes are considered to be the remains of the deceased. After cremation, they are not subject to the same legal requirements as a burial, which means you typically don’t need a special permit to scatter ashes in most locations. However, it’s important to ask permission if the land isn’t yours.
If you’re considering scattering ashes in a place that holds special meaning, such as a holiday cottage, a peaceful woodland trail, or a favourite sports ground, it’s a good idea to have a conversation with the landowner or manager. Most people appreciate openness and understanding, and this might lead to a positive outcome.
While you aren't required to register the act of scattering ashes, it might be helpful to note down the date and location for your own peace of mind, especially if other family members may want to visit the site in the future.
Is it okay to scatter ashes in multiple places?
Absolutely. There’s no legal requirement to choose just one place. For some families, dividing the ashes and scattering them across several locations helps reflect the richness of a life that touched many people or spanned different homes and landscapes.
This can also be a thoughtful way to involve different family members in the farewell process. One group might gather at the seaside, while another finds meaning in a woodland walk or city garden. As long as the ashes are handled with respect, this can be a beautiful and inclusive way to honour your loved one.
Creative and symbolic ideas for scattering ashes
There’s no need to follow a script. Some families choose to scatter ashes quietly and privately, while others create a small ceremony, reading a poem, playing a favourite piece of music, or sharing stories.
You might scatter ashes from a height so the wind carries them, or tip them into a flowing river, symbolising the journey of life. Some people use petals or birdseed to mark the spot in a natural, respectful way. Others plant a tree or create a small memorial nearby to return to in the years ahead.
The act doesn’t have to be sad. It can be calm, loving, and even joyful, whatever feels right for you and the person you’re remembering. If you’re looking for more inspiration, we’ve got an article with over 20 ideas on what to do with ashes.
What to expect on the day
It’s worth planning the details in advance, especially if you're travelling to a location or meeting others. Check the weather, write a list of everything you want to bring, and think about accessibility for anyone with mobility needs.
If you're using a scatter tube or biodegradable urn, practice how it opens beforehand. The wind can be unpredictable, so stand upwind and release the ashes slowly to avoid blowback. Some people bring a small amount of ashes home as a keepsake, in a piece of jewellery or a miniature urn.
You might choose to say a few words aloud, or simply stand in silence. However you mark the moment, it’s okay to feel emotional, or not. There’s no right way to grieve.
Can you travel with ashes in the UK?
Yes, you can take ashes with you when travelling across the UK by car, train, or even plane. If you're carrying ashes by air, contact the airline in advance, as each has its own rules. Most will require the ashes to be in a sealed, non-metallic container and accompanied by the cremation certificate.
When travelling by car or train, it’s a good idea to keep the ashes in a secure, cushioned container and carry any documents with you, just in case. While you don’t need formal permission to transport ashes within the UK, having paperwork to hand can help avoid any confusion or questions.
If you’re going to a special or remote location to scatter ashes, plan your journey carefully, especially if weather, tides, or terrain could be a factor.
What happens if you can’t get permission to scatter ashes?
Sometimes, despite your best intentions, permission might be refused. Protected natural spaces, private heritage sites, or certain religious grounds may not allow scattering, often due to environmental or policy concerns.
In those situations, it’s understandable to feel disappointed, but try to remember that the meaning behind the gesture can still be honoured in another way. You could choose a nearby location with similar significance or even hold a symbolic ceremony without scattering ashes—lighting a candle, sharing a memory, or leaving a natural tribute like flowers or pebbles.
Environmental considerations when scattering ashes
Ashes are sterile and generally pose no health risk, but they can affect soil and water if scattered in large quantities or sensitive ecosystems. That’s why it’s important to scatter them sparingly and away from water sources, particularly when on land that supports protected plant life or wildlife.
The Environment Agency advises that when scattering in rivers or coastal areas, the ashes should be released below the high-water mark and well away from moorings or places where people swim.
Using biodegradable urns, tubes, or water-soluble containers helps reduce impact. These are often made from recycled materials and designed to break down naturally over time, leaving no trace behind.
Holding a ceremony without scattering the ashes
Some families choose to keep the ashes in a memorial urn, inter them in a cemetery, or divide them into keepsakes rather than scatter them. If that’s your path, you can still hold a ceremony that reflects your love and remembrance.
Lighting a candle, sharing a favourite meal, creating a scrapbook, or planting flowers in your garden can all be just as meaningful. If you change your mind in future, you’ll still have the ashes with you and the freedom to decide.
There’s no rulebook. What matters is that the decision feels right and brings comfort.
Choosing the right place to scatter ashes
There is no right or wrong place to scatter ashes, only what feels right for you and your loved one.
You might choose a spot that reflects their personality or passions: a favourite walking trail, a beach they loved, a local hilltop with a view. Some people opt for multiple locations, especially if different places hold meaning for different family members.
It’s worth thinking about accessibility, too. Will you or others want to return to this place in the future? Is it safe, easy to reach, and peaceful enough for quiet remembrance?
Scattering ashes is a personal and poignant way to say goodbye, a moment that can offer both closure and connection.
Whether you’re planning ahead for yourself or arranging a farewell for someone dear, it's okay to take things one step at a time. What's most important is that the decision feels personal and meaningful to you.
