Choosing flowers for a celebration of life or to show sympathy can be meaningful. It can also be an emotional experience. Flowers have long been symbols of love, remembrance, and support, often conveying feelings that words can't fully express.
This guide will help you choose flower arrangements for a celebration of life or a funeral. It will also reflect your relationship with the person who has passed away.
Consider the meaning behind flowers
Many flowers carry unique meanings, and selecting blooms with significance can add a personal touch. For example;
- Lilies are often associated with purity and peace, making them a common choice.
- Roses symbolise love, respect, and remembrance.
- Chrysanthemums, particularly in Europe and Asia, represent grief and mourning.
However if you have a favourite flower that was meaningful to the departed or their family, let that guide your choice.
Reflect on personality and preferences
Think about the person’s tastes and personality. Did they prefer classic flowers like roses, or did they enjoy playful blooms like bright sunflowers and cheerful daisies?
If they loved gardening, you could even include flowers they tended to themselves. Perhaps an arrangement of wildflowers would suit instead of a formal bouquet, for example.
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Understand traditional types of arrangements
Different flower arrangements suit different parts of a service. Here are some common types:
- Casket Sprays: These large arrangements are typically placed on the casket, often chosen by close family. They can come in full or half-length and designers commonly create them to suit the personality and style of the loved one.
- Standing sprays and wreaths: These are usually placed next to the casket or grave. Friends, colleagues, or extended family often send them. They come in various shapes like hearts, crosses, or circles, and you can customise them in colours or styles that carry meaning.
- Sympathy Bouquets and Baskets: These are appropriate for sending directly to the family’s home. Sympathy bouquets are often smaller and easier to handle. They provide a comforting reminder of support during and after the service.
Balance tradition and personal choice
Some cultures have specific traditions around funeral flowers. Many people like white flowers because they represent peace and purity. However, others choose colourful arrangements to celebrate a lively life. Understanding any cultural references can guide your choices while allowing for your personal touch.
Another way to make a celebration of life special is to choose songs that have meaning. These songs should reflect your relationship with the person who has passed away.
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Consider the season
Flowers that are in season are fresher and can also carry added symbolism. Spring flowers, such as tulips and daffodils, symbolise renewal and hope.
In contrast, autumn colours offer warmth and a feeling of stability. Seasonal blooms can help create a meaningful arrangement that feels natural and heartfelt.
Choose a colour palette with care
Colours evoke plenty of emotion, giving you the opportunity to show how you feel without writing or saying anything.
Whites and soft pastels express peace and comfort, while deeper shades like reds and purples can represent love and respect. For someone known for their joyful spirit, a bright and colourful arrangement could feel more fitting.
Opt for eco-friendly choices
Many florists now offer arrangements that use biodegradable materials and local flowers to minimise environmental impact. Think about choosing sustainably sourced flowers. You could also use potted plants as a lasting tribute.
Adding personal touches
Adding something extra, even if it’s small, can make flowers feel even more special. You might include a ribbon in a meaningful colour, a handwritten note, or even a small keepsake, such as a charm or photograph. These show a more personal, thoughtful touch and give the opportunity to share a moment.
Consult with a florist
A professional florist can be a valuable resource, especially if you feel uncertain about making the right choice. They can guide you on popular options, seasonal availability, and ways to customise arrangements. Sharing details about your relationship, favourite colours, or traditions can help the florist create a design that feels perfect.
Focus on what feels right
Ultimately, choosing the right funeral flowers is a deeply personal decision. Try to set aside any pressure to make a “perfect” choice and instead focus on what feels right. Trust your instincts and choose something that shows your relationship.